“Everyone is busy, and we all have different stories and struggle with different issues that compete for our attention and time. We all should be concerned about how much we cram into our schedules. If we truly want to be great neighbors, we are going to have to make some adjustments. And that may mean God will call you to say no to some good things so you can focus on the things that are really important.”– Jay Pathak and Dave Runyon, The Art of Neighboring Make a Relationship Investment Plan for Your Life Dying Regrets and New Year Reflections